
God honored and respected Adam as a man. He gave Adam his first project, naming the animals. God also gave him his first job, tending the garden. Then he gave Adam his wife.
God made sure to spend time fathering Adam by meeting with him in the cool of the day. it was something The Father clearly looked forward to.
But one day while Adam and Eve were spending time together, Eve heard the voice of the serpent. The scripture says that Eve gave some of the fruit to her husband who was with her!
In other words, Adam heard the conversation between his wife and the evil one. Eve was deceived, but Adam knew better. But he chose to be passive and do nothing.
Worse - he ultimately decided to choose his wife over his Father (who gave him the wife).
(Above is Michelangelo's rendering of the scene on the ceiling of the Sisteen Chapel. The careful viewer will gain insight into his view of why Adam may have chosen his wife over God -- or at least was not paying attention. Need a hint? What was Eve doing just before she turned to take the fruit?)
Ah, men, brothers, how like our father Adam we are! We feign passivity instead of bringing our considerable strength to bear. We falsely think we have no strength. And we choose the Beauty that God gave us thinking that in her, bone of our bones, flesh of our flesh, we will finally find our completion and fulfillment. We make that lovely person into an idol -- and one destined to disappoint because she is not able to be our God.
Still God honored the man as a man by holding him responsible, he who tried to avoid responsibility to the end -- "it was the woman You gave me!" But there were real consequences for his actions. This was not a game. Now we're playing for real.